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10 Most Common Lies Men Tell Women And What They’re Hiding

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Generally women lie about their physical characteristics like their mental state, weight and age etc. However, men don’t pay much heed to their physical attributes but lie for various other reasons. Most of their lies come across dealing with the opposite $ex.

Here is what I would categorize as the top ten most frequently repeated lies that men tell to women.

1. “You are the first love of my life”

Men fall in love with almost all the girls that they come across. This is the most common lie spoken by men. This is nothing but just a tactic to impress the other girl and make her love you.

There’s almost no chance that he’ll upgrade you to long-term, exclusive status.

In my lifetime, I cannot tell you how many women I’ve observed get their hearts broken by a man who was already in a relationship and gave them the impression that they were going to “one day” be elevated to the status of his only woman.

 

2. “I am sorry”

Another lie, men hate using these words still they say it even when they are not at fault just for the sake of maintaining a good relationship. However, majority of the times these words comes out of their mouth just for the sake of saying it and generally they don’t mean in.

3. “I call you tomorrow”

This is one of the most common lies which men tell women. If he texts you saying this, its better that you don’t reply otherwise you will be wasting your time. Men generally say this just to avoid someone. In majority of the cases, you will see that the phone calls do not come not only for tomorrow but also for the subsequent days.

4. “Baby, you haven’t heard from me because I’m dealing with some stuff.”

No, it’s you and him. You know why this happens? Some lying womanizers and cheaters do have a “conscience.”

Let’s say a lying womanizer meets you and gives you the misleading impression that he only wants to spend time with you — even though there are three or four other women he has on the side.

One day, he might start feeling like, “Wow, I am really playing with this woman’s emotions.I need to quit leading this woman on.” However, he just can’t bring himself to “come clean” with you.

So what does he do? He makes himself unavailable and aloof. He’s hoping he can just slowly “fade out” of your life without having to explain anything.

5. “She is not that pretty”

This implies that she is definitely pretty. Even in the company of their wife or girlfriends, men often ogle at other women and when their partners ask them, they just reply “she is not that pretty”. Well, majority of the women believe in their sweet talks but there are some smart ones who understands that they are not being given the due attention from their boyfriends or husband.

6. “You are the most beautiful girl I have ever seen in my life”

Obviously, it isn’t true. Women are more cautious about their looks than men and every lady wants to be admired. Men usually use these words to impress a lady. Even though they might come across beautiful women every day, they will pretend and say that you are prettiest of them all.

7. “I am single”

Irrespective of whether they are seeing someone, are married or single, men always tend to say that “I am single”. The logic behind it is really not difficult to understand. Saying this implies that you are open to a relationship. It’s always better to be available to everyone, every time.

8. “You know me now, this is how I am”

A man says this to a woman just to avoid an embarrassing situation. It means that even you don’t know have any idea about who you are. Just to make a soft corner in the heart of a lady, a man says this. It also implies that you will still behave this way in future also and you partner should understand your behavior.

9. “I’m on My Way”

Men usually throw this line when they don’t want to meet someone or attend an event. This is best in option when you cannot afford to show tantrums or be aggressive. Also, saying this line and turning up for an event is an excellent way to gain a wee amount of control.

10. “Nothing’s Wrong, I’m Fine”

This is mainly said to protect the male ego and also to avoid drama and confusion over some issues. If a man is saying this then he might not mean at all. However, just to keep things smooth and get going he is admitting that he is fine. Since ancient times, men are known for not showing their feelings.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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If Your Husband Frequently Says These 6 Things, Your Marriage Is In Serious Trouble

If communication and respect between you and your spouse is running thin, you may be worried about your marriage.

To have a long-lasting, solid and happy marriage, you must sustain communication, mutual respect and commitment.

If your husband often says these phrases, talk openly with him about how they make you feel. He should be understanding and respectful of your feelings and opinions.

1. “Whatever you say is fine,” or “Whatever you want”

These phrases show a lack of interest in what you do, in fact, want. It is not because you dominate the relationship and he submits to your every whim; on the contrary! This constant attitude shows a lack of passion and intrigue in your marriage.

2. “You will never change”

Change is difficult. But if your husband constantly claims you are not capable of change, talk with him about why you do certain things he disagrees with. Discussing your reasoning will allow him to understand more fully where you are coming from. Take turns discussing things you won’t change, and compromising the things both of you can change.

3. “I’m bored”

Sometimes a break in your normal routine is refreshing. Ask yourself if you are happy with your relationship routine. Do you think he is? It is essential that you take some time occasionally to do different things to strengthen your love and deepen the emotional connection in your relationship.

4. “You never understand what I’m saying,” or “You don’t understand me”

Men and women think differently. So sometimes, communication between a couple can be complicated.

If he is voicing that he often feels misunderstood, take the time to really listen to each other and understand where the other is coming from. Doing so is essential to a strong marriage.

5. “You’re not the person I fell in love with anymore”

Physical, emotional and intellectual changes occur over the years in a relationship.

If your husband complains using this phrase, he doesn’t understand that he is not the same person you fell in love with anymore either. It is impossible for anyone to stay exactly the same.

In order to have a successful marriage, you must both grow and change together, and work through changes respectfully as a couple.

Learning to grow and change together in love is necessary for a successful marriage.

6. “Why are you not like … ?”

Comparisons destroy relationships. If your husband constantly compares you to his mother, friends, sisters or other women, he is not properly valuing who you are. Think about the situation and make a decision that is best for your well-being.

The key to a successful marriage is not dwelling on the petty things, but trusting and communicating with each other. Take time to solve problems and behaviors together in order to find happiness.

Source: familyshare.com